Happy Saint Patrick’s Day!

Today is the anniversary of the death of Saint Patrick. We celebrate his Feast Day, which loosely translates to people drinking (too much) green beer and wearing green clothing, pretending to be stereotypically Irish.

We have briefly written about Irish death rituals in the past. But today we wanted to dig a bit deeper and celebrate this day in proper death positive style.

So pour yourself a drink, and pull up a stool (but not too close) as we share some interesting Funeral Traditions from Ireland.

Funeral Traditions from Ireland: How the Irish Embrace Death

Funeral Traditions from Ireland – The Irish Wake

Funeral Traditions from Ireland

Scene from Waking Ned Devine

The tradition of holding a wake is one of the most ancient of our death rituals, first being cited in the Homeric war poem The Iliad. In Ireland, the wake tradition is believed to be a mixture of Paganism and Christianity. Up until the 19th century, with the development of modern cities and deathcare, an Irish wake started with women washing the deceased, dressing them in their finest clothing, and placing the body on a large table in the main room of the house with candles placed around it. The body would be wrapped in a shroud, tied and decorated with ribbon or flowers. The wake would last a few days during which the body would never be left alone.

Men would partake in smoking tobacco together to socialize and keep evil spirits away from the body.

Neighbors would visit the home of the deceased, welcomed by relatives, and expressed their sympathy by stating “I’m sorry for your trouble…”. Everyone was encouraged to touch the body, but it was not a solemn occasion.

Stories were shared, and food and drink were consumed liberally. Men would partake in smoking tobacco together to socialize and keep evil spirits away from the body. Each male visitor was expected to take a puff of tobacco from a pipe that was left near, or sometimes on the body.

The Irish Wake today is comparable to other Christian funerals. However, people in Ireland typically believe that a funeral is a cause for a celebration of the life of the deceased.

Funeral Traditions from Ireland – Stopping Clocks, Opening Windows and Covering Mirrors

Stopping clocks, opening windows and covering mirrors are all part of the Irish Wake tradition, and similar rituals can be found in other cultures around the world.

All clocks are stopped at the time of death. This marks the time out of respect, and also prevents bad luck.

All the mirrors in the house are covered so the spirit of the deceased is not trapped inside.

All the windows in the house are opened so the spirit of the deceased can leave the home.

But be warned! Don’t stand between the spirit of the dead and the open window, or you will block their exit and be cursed!

Funeral Traditions from Ireland – Keening

In ancient Ireland, you weren’t supposed to cry until the preparation of the body was complete. Crying or wailing too soon was believed to attract evil spirits that would capture the soul of the deceased.

 Once the preparation of the body was completed, a lead keener would begin. She would be the first woman to weep over the dead body and recite poetry. After she began, the other women would join in.

This tradition is rarely practiced at funerals today.

Funeral Traditions from Ireland – Sin Eater

Funeral Traditions from Ireland

A Sin Eater was a person who was tasked with eating the sins of the dead in order for the soul of the deceased to avoid damnation (fun fact: sin tastes a lot like chicken). In Ireland, the sin eater tradition was practiced up until the late 19th Century.

When a Sin Eater died, his soul would be carried to hell, weighted by the sins he had eaten throughout his life. 

It is believed to be a folkloric ritual connected to the British Isles, with roots in early Chrisitanity. When someone died without being able to confess their sins, a Sin Eater would be called upon and given bread and ale that was either passed over the body, or eaten in front of the corpse. They would then say a short prayer and would essentially ‘eat’ the sins of the deceased, absorbing the sins into their own soul. This allowed for the soul of the dead to pass into heaven and rest in peace.

When a Sin Eater died, his soul would be carried to hell, weighted by the sins he had eaten throughout his life. 

Funeral Traditions from Ireland – Funeral Procession

“Funeral of Mrs Pearse” via National Library of Ireland

After the wake is finished, the body is removed from the house and transferred to a local church for the funeral mass and burial. These traditions are quite similar to Christian funeral processions in the West. 

The coffin is traditionally carried by 6 male pallbearers, who are often family. The body is either driven in a hearse or carried by the pallbearers at the front of the procession, with friends and family following behind. People in the streets will stop and allow the procession to go ahead of them out of respect.

Once at the church, there is the funeral mass that often lasts for around 45 minutes with the priest and loved ones speaking of the deceased. After this service is complete, the same procession will carry the coffin to the grave to be buried with a final prayer.

If the procession passes the house of the deceased, they will stop for a moment as a sign of respect.

The Modern Irish Funeral

Today, the Irish Wake is still celebrated in many parts of Ireland, though it is less popular in urban areas. It can take place in the home of the deceased, or at another location such as a pub or town hall.

Gone are the days of keening, with most modern wakes only lasting a few hours, or a single day. In some cases, the body may not even be physically present at the Wake, but there will often be photographs of the deceased on display. If the body is present, it is expected people visit with it briefly, say a short prayer or moment of silence, and then carry on.

But don’t be distraught, there is still food, drinks, and stories to be shared abound. The modern Irish wake is still about celebration and embracing our mortality with a bit of humour and good cheer. So if you ever find yourself at an Irish Funeral, do not be shy. Pay your respects to the family and raise a glass to the deceased, and then maybe stay a little while to listen to some good stories. We hope you enjoyed learning more about these fascinating funeral traditions from Ireland.


  1. There is no evidence that it was practiced in Ireland or outside of North Wales and Shropshire England.

    1. There are Victorian era customs involving the eating of cakes and the dead such as in Upper Bavaria but not technically “sin eating” as described.

  2. Though I live in America, I have Irish friends and have attended several Irish funerals in western rual Northern Ireland. All that is written above I have experienced in the little community of Belleek. We as a family have many friends in Belleek and some have completed their earthly journey. Even in death, we celebrated their lives well lived. We miss them dearly and pray that we may see them again in the here-after.

    1. Hello, I am speaking at an Irish funeral (in the US) next week and I’m looking for a prayer/psalm/reading to refer to; do you have any suggestions?

  3. My grandparents were from Ireland though died just before my birth.My mother unknowingly passed to me the Irish difference concerning death…The lack of fear ,a spirit of celebration and profound faith of life beyond the grave. She told me not to fear the dead because evil people could not return and the good ones don’t want to lol.

    1. Such a gift she gave you.

    2. I’m Irish. That sounds lovely but the truth is many have a lot of difficulty in crossing over after they have died because the wheels of karma roll into effect immediately & many are scared to go through their life review so they stay in what’s called a “buddy huddle” with other souls, a 4th dimensional sphere. There are many Soul or Death Midwives worldwide that help/guide people through this & towards the light
      They can return but not as the same person & they will have to redo the lessons they didn’t learn in the previous incarnation 🙏

      1. Where can i learn about ‘buddy huddle’ or is that just a name you made up?

    3. It makes me think of my mom I didn’t understand she has no fear of death she passed away very peacefully

  4. My Mum is now 87, and she grew up in Cabbagetown, which is a neighbourhood in Toronto that was once largely populated by Irish Scottish and Welsh immigrants, like her parents.

    So this would be before, say, 1960, when a household member died some kind of small flag would be placed in the window for a couple of days for the viewing. The deceased would be laid out in their finery and people would visit to pay their respects and have a drink.

  5. BTW, who were they that flocked to the gig of sin eater? Sheesh.

  6. IDK about anyone else but as soon as I was told of my maternal grandaddys death I bawled my eyes out and said I want to go to heaven with him I was only age 14 and 3/4 at the time

  7. 😰😥😢😰🥺😭😭😭💔💔💔😿👱‍♀️🙇‍♀️

  8. 😰😥😢😰🥺😭😭😭💔💔💔😿👱‍♀️🙇‍♀️

  9. When I was growing up in Wales in the 50s and 60s when someone died the curtains would stay closed until after the funeral…

  10. Sooooo…who are the people signing up for the death eater gig? “Hi, I’d like to go to hell after eating other people’s sins. Here’s my résumé and headshot.”😭

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